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Do you mind being a part of my site-stats?

How can you identify the people whose intentions are good?

How can you identify the people whose intentions are good?
How can you distinguish the people whose intentions are socially positive from the ones who are merely self-serving, or group/family/tribe-serving?
Which am I?
To what extent is it possible to act for the common good without damaging the interests of those closest to me?